LIVE IN THE PRESENT

There are many people who always think that past was better. These people always busy in the memories of the past.

These people   have negative mindset about the present. They   believe that past was good. Even only people of their age group may have such ideology even they think that they are right. These people face many problem in adjusting with present generation and same happens with present generation also actually generation gap become wider in such cases.

First of all everyone must leave this habit right now because this habit is self destroying habit. Who have such habit they always remain unhappy and make other unhappy also. Try to think for a while that time cannot be stopped .

Changes are inevitable nobody able to restrict these changes. Now we have better facilities than past in terms of medical facilities, living conditions,insfracture,health…etc and above all past cannot be regained back, so what is benefit of remain indulge in past thinking anymore.

Always think that present is best and try to enjoy present very much. You can take lessons from past and those lessons

may  be helpful in making the future great .Learn new things ,adopt new techniques, make use of every moment of the present . When one starts living in present then one becomes more happy, one becomes more happy, one become more acceptable in the society such people no longer need OLD AGED HOME. Present generation easily gets adjusted with such people and they don’t have problems with such people. So focus at the present and appreciate the present and implements past lessons to make the present better.

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NEW NORMAL

Normalcy everyone like but every day new challenges we have to face and we have to adopt some new rules ,regulations ,norms  with the hope that these new rules will bring positive changes in the coming life. There are  always difficulties  before adopting new norms, rules but ultimately we adopt and these new changes become normal, as usual.

There are people who do not welcome new things enthusiastically but circumstances force them to accept new changes. Buses, Trains ,Metros, Aeroplanes…etc  all are normal now a days but they  also faced difficulties in making their place in the society. When computer  was introduced then nobody liked it because there was common opinion that it would turn many people unemployed, but  it is impossible to think about present life without computers. Now,This has also become normal.

Like lock down was introduced to prevent  corona pandemic, first it was very difficult to remain always inside the home but now people have accepted this also with the hope of corona free future. Now this lock down has also become new normal.

At last we I want to state that everyone must ready to adopt new changes. One  must not be obstinate in adopting new norms because all these are normal for a living being, so welcome all these new normal.

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LONELINESS

Being alone is not equal to loneliness on the other hand loneliness means absence of recognition. When  one happens to be alone then one can be able to complete his essential tasks ,but when one become loneliness then one is not able to complete even ones priorities as well as essential tasks.

Because loneliness is the absence  of  recognition. When  other people do not give respect to one that time one suffers from loneliness. Being alone is not great problem but being lonely  is great problem.

Ways to overcome loneliness:

First   realize that others opinion may be different , it is not unusual.

Second   it is not necessary that  every    one must respect us.

Third  we should not think that our judgments  will be right always.

Fourth try to understand that with the time younger generation  become more smarter.

Fifth always ready to learn new things if we stick to old means and have opinion that old is always best then it will be difficult to overcome loneliness.Thank You for reading do share if you like and comments are always welcome.

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MULTI TASKING

The word MULTI TASKING is very influencing   and present concept   of multi tasking is getting importance. Now   a days Multi Tasking is considered the key to success but it is not completely  true ,it  holds water but to certain limit.

Actually multi tasking does give you success but a task done multiple times gives you success. So don’t focus on multi tasking   instead one must focus on doing a work multiple times with efficiency , that will  give you success.

If one wants to achieve success then one must try to focus on   the work and try to achieve efficiency  in that work.

Now we discuss the ways to achieve efficiency. Some of them are:

First  understand  the our work thoroughly.

Second decide the time limit to do that work with patience.

Third analysis the work done and ponder over the result.

Fourth  if we got the desired  result then continue doing that work otherwise explore some other ways to achieve the desired goal.

Fifth and last is that this is my opinion if have different opinion then I respect your opinion,ultimately  your own opinion matters much.

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Fear of new task,how to overcome?

The answer is very simple of this question even though many people always busy in finding the of this question .First of all every one must think  fear before new task is normal.Every one has to face it,If we are facing such fear then it is not abnormal.

Generally fear remains until we begin the new task, as soon as we starts the new task we no longer remain fearful instead be become focused  on the new task, that time we think ,how to complete  the task successfully?

First we have understood that it is normal,now we try to find the way to overcome this, I think you would be agree ,as soon as we think that it is normal automatically much fear vanishes at once.

Second there must be proper planning that what we have to do,if we know our field of work then there is no reason to remain fearful.

Third ask your self that what happened when you failed in some task, certainly you will get the answer not very bad, so in future also same system will go on ie not very bad will be happened.

So don't be panic before any task, Just remain normal,and focus on your task.Thank You for reading do share if you like and comments are always welcome.

 

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