Many people always remain confused about this question that why people respects someone very much
and other does not command that much respect.?
Answer is simple generally only that person command respect in the society who gives respect to others,the person who takes interest in others ,that person become centre of attraction amid others this is set rule and it is true up to 99% ,but one person are those who are famous by birth,these one percent people do not put any extra effort,even though they become popular.
Here our aim is not to discuss about these one percent because there might be many reasons about these people ,such as their good looks,their birth in rich family,their intelligence,their communication skills,their excellent knowledge about current affairs... and so many, be can analysis endlessly but it is difficult to come an acceptable conclusion
If unfortunately we do not fall in those one percent then there are some tips one can follow to become the centre of attraction.
First and foremost don't become burden on others ,I mean to say take advantages from others but within limit not beyond that limit such as one can not force others to take evening stroll with one when others are busy in their work.
try to understand by one more example that if some person allow someone to watch his television and if one starts disturbing others again again to watch television when owner of the television does not want to watch television ,I think it may be clear that don't become burden on others.
Be helpful , If one wants that others must like one then one must be help giver its mean helpful instead of becoming selfish ,means one who always take help but never provide help.
Be respectful, one must know that how one must behave so that others do not have embarrassing feelings while they spent their precious time with one, it means one must understand how to behave with elders,colleagues, and even with youngers.
Be brave it mans others must feel that you may face the problems and find out the solution in case of any unexpected events.
So, I hope you could understand my point of view but ultimately it depends on you to agree with me or not, Thank You.
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